Monthly Archives: June 2009

A doll’s story

Over the recent Memorial Day weekend I learned that the American Girl Doll Company, in it’s infinite wisdom, was coming out with it’s first ‘Jewish American’ doll. I learned this from numerous emails and phone messages – we were out of town – that clogged both machines because the doll had my personal, individual, given by my real parents, name – Rebecca Rubin. She grew up in NYC’s Lower East Side – ditto – and has a relative in the film industry. If there were any more coincidences I would be looking for transmitters in the walls. Recently viewed the movie ‘The Conversation’ with Gene Hackman and forgot how good it is.

But the thing about my 18″ high twin is, how did they pick the name? Rebecca Rubin, while delightfully alliterative, is not, and has never been, the most popular Jewish American woman’s name. Being born in 1918 does make the Lower East Side a natural choice, ditto for Russian origin, but why my name? Apparently there’s another of us who is on the FBI list for arson. Sigh, maybe just being ordinary isn’t so bad!

Getting ready for the ‘Big Day’

My darling daughter is having a Bat Mitzvah in less than three weeks and everyone is wildly excited about it, except her! My friends think this is normal, and it probably is, but it makes me feel downright foolish. I’m looking forward to seeing friends and family, sharing a milestone in our families life.  Daughter is interested in it being over.  I had an adult Bat Mitzvah so it isn’t really a fair comparison because I definitely chose my path, though I mostly feel like the path chose me.

Well, it was wonderful and nothing much went wrong, except the usual… delayed flights, I came down with a cold and missed the evening party… but it was great and worth all the work.  Right now I know she did it just for me but hopefully someday it might have more meaning.